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Despite having very confidently typed out that title, I would not characterize the last several weeks as calm.

I spent this morning wading through someone else’s junk. We had told the sellers of our new house that we were happy to keep any items that were specific to the house. In my mind, this meant extra pieces of trim from the dining room or extra hardware for the kitchen. Sure, leave all the old paint cans. I’ll be bringing them to hazardous waste but those labels are useful if I ever need to match the trim color!

But no. Our sellers are boomers, and boomers think everything is useful. I found a box of old, busted up doorknobs and locks that I assumed were original to the house. Well, okay, kind of cool to know what they looked like, but when will we ever use these? And used bathroom vents… really? Why did you even keep these?!

They left large boxes of extra tiles from the last time they redid all the bathrooms. What are the chances that something terrible happens to the bathroom floor and we need to replace just a part of it and want to make sure we have matching tile? No, really, I am asking. What are the chances?!?

All this to say that moving day is in a week and shit is getting real. We closed on the new house in June, basically handed the keys directly to the contractor, and departed for Asia. The new house was a mess when we returned, covered in spackle and drywall dust and to be perfectly honest I’ve mostly been ignoring it and thinking of it as the contractor’s house. It’s less than a half mile from our current house and I have only been going up there once a week to make sure there isn’t water in the basement.

But the contractors are just about ready to hand it back off to us, which is why I’ve been over there wiping down surfaces and throwing things away the last two days.

Moving is weird. The last time I moved was twelve years ago and we had a lot less stuff. My oldest kid was not yet six months old, and my youngest didn’t exist. It was approximately six lifetimes ago, and I don’t even know how to approach moving now.

Also it sucks starting over in a new house. We love old houses, but old houses come with a lot of problems. We’ve been in our current house for long enough that we’ve repaired or replaced or painted or maintained pretty much every part of it. I know exactly how old all of the appliances are and which ones are on their last legs. I know where water accumulates in the backyard during a rainstorm, and I know which toilet is the best one for pooping.

I don’t know any of these things in the new house. Every day I spend there I discover new things: some bad, some good. Some days I walk out excited for our next chapter, and some days I close the door behind me and wonder if we’ve made a horrible mistake.

This is normal too, I know. We moved into this house in July. At some point in the next month there was a big thunderstorm and all of a sudden there was water coming into the house in six different places. I ran around with my baby in my arms and threw down towels and buckets. I was devastated that my new house was being destroyed by water, and knew we had made a huge financial mistake.

We were young and had a lot less money and no time, and it took us almost two full years to finally hire a contractor to tell us what was wrong with our house and fix it. It turns out we desperately needed a new roof, and that new roof–as I recall–resolved most but not all of the water intrusion issues. In later years we replaced the gutters and exterior trim and that resolved the water issues completely.

You know what’s most crazy? I can’t even remember exactly where all the water was coming in all those years ago. I used to run around putting out the towels and buckets before big storms. It was a big thing in my life! And I can’t even remember where all the towels needed to go!

And I am trying to remind myself that I will feel the same way after a decade in this new house. I won’t remember that the hot water heater stopped working a week before we moved in. I won’t recall what the box of old knobs looked like, or even that it existed in the first place. In twelve years, I will be able to tell you exactly which appliance is most likely to fail next, and how to best clean the windows, and where the Christmas tree should go.

I just have to get through the first couple months of chaos.

Despite having taken Japanese in college and knowing many people who have been to Japan in the last ten years, I was extremely intimidated by the process of planning a family trip to Japan. But we had an amazing time! We made some mistakes, yes, but we also had a lot of wins.

What we did right:

1. Go on a food tour.
   I have never gone on a food tour, but someone suggested it might be a fun way to get to know how the restaurants in Japan worked. They were right! Just seeing how the restaurant functioned and how to interact with the wait staff was extremely helpful. And the tour guide was able to answer some of my cultural questions. We had so much fun with Ninja Food Tours on our Tokyo food tour we ended up booking one for Kyoto too.
2. Book a lot of things on the first day (including your food tour), and very little after that.
   Okay, I only booked two things on our first full day in Japan, but it felt like a lot! And I was glad I did because it forced us to get up and get out of our hotel room and stay active in the sun for most of the day despite the jet lag. I booked very few activities for the rest of the trip. My planning mostly consisted of researching which high-priority sights we wanted to see (like Senso-ji Temple) and figuring out what else was nearby (Asakusa shopping district, Ninja Experience, Tokyo Skytree) that we might want to do while we’re in the neighborhood. We were easily able to adjust our daily itinerary due to weather and emotional bandwidth.
3. Pack light!
   We all brought carry-on sized luggage for a two-week trip: six outfits, jammies, fleece, raincoat, swimsuit, toiletries. This still left ample space for souvenirs. I made use of the coin laundry at our hotels when I could, and one time I used a public coin laundry. All of the washing machines added detergent for me, so I didn’t even have to worry about buying detergent. And packing light made things much easier when we were moving hotels and had to take our luggage on the subway. Also the carry-on size luggage is easy to bring with you on the shinkansen!
4. Bring an umbrella.
   It’s good for rain protection and good for sun protection; I used mine several times and was happy to have it!
5. Download the Suica card into your Apple Wallet before you go.
   Suica is how we paid for public transit in all three cities, and having it on our phones made it incredibly easy. If it’s on your phone it’s much easier to check your balance and you can add more yen very easily. Unfortunately, it does not work for children so we did have to buy the Welcome Suica card at the airport for the kids, but that was relatively easy.
6. Bring melatonin.
   Someone pointed out that melatonin didn’t necessarily help them fall asleep while traveling, but it helped them stay asleep through the night rather than do the 2 AM jet lag wakeup. I think this is true, and we made good use of melatonin our first five nights in Japan (and are using it now as we attempt to convert back to Minnesota time).
7. Learn a little Japanese ahead of time.
   I had taken Japanese in college, so I jumped back on Duolingo for the six months before our trip to try to refresh my knowledge. I was able to function okay in Japanese while we were there, and Google Translate was useful although sometimes questionable. I highly recommend the book Japanese for Travelers, which had a great deal of good cultural information as well as useful language help in it. You should also learn how to count food items and how to count people up to the number in your party.
8. Go somewhere beyond Tokyo and Kyoto.
   My husband convinced me to add Hiroshima to the last couple days of our itinerary and we all agreed it was our favorite stop. Tokyo is amazing. Kyoto is amazing. But it felt really good to spend time in a smaller, slower city for a little bit.
9. Bring a tiny backpack for everyone.
   I made everyone bring their own tiny backpack because I’m tired of being the mom who carries All the Things All the Time. So everyone was able to tote around their own souvenirs, water bottles, umbrellas, and garbage. (Yes, it is true that there are very few public trash cans in Japan and you are expected to carry your garbage home with you.) This mini backpack was perfect.
10. Carry a pair of socks with you.
    It was hot and I wore sandals the whole time, but kept a pair of socks in my mini backpack. There are restaurants and tourist destinations that do not allow shoes but do require socks. I only needed them twice, but I was glad to have them!
11. Don’t bring a water bottle.
    A friend who has been to Tokyo recently gave me this advice. If you bring your giant metal water bottle you’re just going to be toting around an empty bottle all day as there are no places to refill water bottles. It is not an exaggeration to say that there are vending machines selling water on nearly every block in Tokyo. It is incredibly easy and cheap to just buy plastic water bottles throughout the day and that’s how you should plan your hydration efforts.

Here are some things you should not do:

1. Pack a fleece for summer travel.
   I packed my stupid fleece all the way across the Pacific Ocean because some of the packing advice told me that I would want it due to how much the Japanese run their air conditioning. This was incorrect. Not a single time did I even begin to consider needing a fleece. I would totally skip this if you’re going in June, July, August, or September.
2. Separate your shinkansen trip from your airport trip.
   We ended our trip in Hiroshima and had to take the bullet train (shinkansen) back up to Tokyo in order to fly home. I didn’t have access to the shinkansen schedule at the time, and didn’t want to roll the dice by having a delayed train prevent us from making our flight. As a result, we spent an extra night in Tokyo when we really didn’t need to. If you miss your shinkansen there will be another one within the next fifteen minutes that you can hop onto. They run a tight schedule, and if we were to go again I wouldn’t hesitate to book shinkansen and airplane on the same day.
3. Bring a tiny amount of cash.
   We did not bring enough cash. I had not realized how ubiquitous and tempting the gacha machines would be, or that they would only take 100 yen coins. I also did not realize how often we would need coins to pay for fortunes at temples, or just to make donations at shrines. We also ran into several restaurants and shops that were cash only. We made use of ATMs to acquire more cash as we went, but our bank would have gotten us a better conversion rate, and I would start out with far more cash (maybe 40,000 yen) next time.
4. Only bring Crocs.
   Okay, I did not make this mistake myself, but at least one of my kids did. Crocs just don’t provide enough support for all the walking you’re going to do. Get something better. And another anonymous family member failed to buy new sandals for the trip until the day before we departed and spent the first four days in Japan dealing with blisters. Buy high quality footwear early and break it in before you go!
5. Plan a trip for more than two weeks.
   Well, maybe this is a personal issue of mine. Our trip was fourteen days including all travel to and from the United States, and we were all very ready to go home by about day twelve. I know there are all those Instagram families out there who are traveling full-time or for several months of the year, but I don’t know how they do it. I missed my cats and my bed and my own shower and my car.

Despite the language barrier and cultural differences and the huge time zone difference, we did find traveling in Japan relatively easy. I saw a lot of stuff that I have always wanted to see but never expected to see. Our kids are ten (juu sai) and twelve (juu-ni sai) now, and they were really excellent travelers throughout the entire trip. There was a time when even taking them to visit their grandparent’s non-babyproofed house was a massive, stressful ordeal, and it boggles my mind that they are old enough now that we can actually enjoy a big international trip like this together. We have six summers left together before our oldest heads off to college, so hoping to fit one or two more big international trips in in that time.

My oldest kid had a strange homework assignment the other day: ask your parent about a natural disaster that they have experienced.

My first thought was that I hadn’t lived through any natural disasters, but upon reflection I realized that I have.

1. The Tyee Fire Complex, 1994
   I’ve blogged about this one before. We had lived in our little mountain resort town for about six years at that point, and I don’t think we had experienced a major wildfire before this. It was a sunny summer afternoon when the smoke moved into the valley, bringing news of this new fire. Now the sun was a red disc in the sky.
   
   Usually in July and August our small town was swarmed with tourists, but they soon disappeared and firefighters appeared in their place. The grocery store parking lot was full of fire-fighting vehicles, and the town was now full of young men in thick firefighter pants and dirty shirts. Helicopters went back and forth all day scooping water from our lake to dump it on the fire. The local radio station played Smoke on the Water and Black Hole Sun and other fire-themed songs in between regular fire updates.
   
   The smoke settled into the valley and stayed and stayed and stayed, so thick we weren’t allowed to go outside even though the air inside the house was slightly smokey too. Some people began running sprinklers on their roofs. My mom finally grew concerned enough that she packed all three of us off Grandma and Grandpa’s farm where the air was still clear and clean.
   
   While we were away, the line of wildfire came down the hills, threatening to jump the river gorge and engulf the town. I still have the dark, grainy video that my dad took that night. I was upset for years to have missed that moment.
   
2. Satsop Earthquake, 1999
   I was stretched out on the floor of my dad’s house watching TV that evening when the floor started to shake and roll. It was not very intense, and I only found out later that it had been an earthquake.
   
3. Nisqually Earthquake, 2001
   Remember how big and bulky TVs were before flatscreens were invented? Remember how in school there was always a giant, heavy TV balanced on a tiny metal arm mount in the corner of every classroom? Well, I was sitting under that TV in my junior year math class when the room–and especially the TV–started shaking.
   
   This was the most intense earthquake I have ever experienced. We all ducked under our tables, and my friend M who had just moved to Washington from the East Coast a few years before started sobbing and weeping with fear. My main concern was keeping clear of the TV!
   
   The TV did not fall that day, and in fact less than seven months later I would watch the events of 9/11 (after both towers had collapsed) play out on the same television.
   
4. Virginia Earthquake, 2011
   This is my favorite of my earthquake-specific memories. I was sitting at my desk on the third floor of a small office building near Union Square in Manhattan when the floor started shaking and rolling a little bit. I recognized the rolling sensation, turned to my coworker who was a lifelong New York resident, and asked if they ever had earthquakes in New York.
   
   “No,” she said. “Why do you ask?”
   
   I actually don’t remember how we found out it was a real earthquake. My husband was in a high-rise office building at the time and I believe they evacuated. I don’t think we evacuated but man that was a shitty building and we probably should have.
   

After recounting all these incidents to my oldest child, he sighed and said, “I wish I could experience a disaster someday.”

Um, excuse me, aren’t you the same kid who came home one Friday in first grade and didn’t return to school for over a year because the Covid-19 pandemic forced the world to close? Aren’t you the same kid who still has a piece of melted metal from the car that was set on fire across the street during the George Floyd riots of that same year?

Just the other day, my youngest related that one of his earliest memories is of me telling him that someday he would be one of the oldest people alive who would remember the Covid-19 pandemic. Ironically, he remembers me saying that, but really doesn’t remember anything about the pandemic itself!

I fail as a fortune teller.

I told my oldest that if he wanted to experience a good earthquake he should go to college in Washington, where they are also overdue for a good volcano eruption. (I am still mad that I missed the eruption of Saint Helens by about two and a half years.)

We’re coming up on Memorial Day Weekend here. The city empties out considerably on those long summer weekends.

Now that we are cabin owners, we haven’t spent a summer holiday weekend in the Cities in a long time. I actually kind of miss the empty sidewalks and restaurants, and the feeling that we were on the only ones in the entire bookstore. I miss not being stuck in traffic on Memorial Day as the entire population of the Twin Cities returns to the metro area all at once. Sad trombone noise for the poor little rich girl.

What I really want to blog about is my job, and race relations at my job. But I am still processing a lot of the things I have seen and heard and quietly noticed. This will take years. Also, I’m not sure of a respectful way to put stuff like that in a public blog. And as a white person I’m a little hesitant to comment out loud on anything having to do with race, at all, ever.

I feel like the paragraph above sounds very cryptic and like there is something horrible going on right now that should be reported. That is not the case. I’m pretty sure the county social worker would hang up on me if I called to report that there are not enough Black teachers at a school with a majority Black student population.

I am taking piano lessons next year, and I am very excited about it. In part because settling into piano lessons this fall will signify that we have made it to the end of our crazy summer of travel and moving and selling a house. But I am also excited because I haven’t had piano lessons in twenty-three years, and I am ready to take my playing to the next level. Or… back to a level that I was already at like twenty-four years ago, at least. I do play pretty regularly, and I have gained back a lot of what I had lost during the interregnum of no access to a piano, but I’ve plateaued at my current level and am ready to move forward.

I’ve wanted to take piano lessons for a while, but I was unable to commit with my eventual employment uncertain for what felt like several years. But my job is solid and I’ve finally got my chance to get back on the piano bench. So to speak.

Sadly, I have learned that employment with a public school district is often dependent on the rising or falling fortunes of the district itself and not on your job performance. So I am planning to enjoy the hell out of this one summer when I will know where I’m going and what I’m doing in the fall. You know, when I’m not totally freaking out over all the life changes.

Ugh, I am so nervous about our upcoming trip to Japan.

It doesn’t help that we just have too much going on in June anyway. And the fact that we’re going to own exactly three properties while we’re on the other side of the world–oh, and two of those properties will be empty while we’re away. That’s a bit of a cause for concern, no?

And there’s the language barrier. And the jet lag. And the flight over the Pacific. And the possibility of illness or injury while in a foreign country. And the possibility of a cat experiencing grave illness or injury while we are in a foreign country.

I could go on, but I don’t need to. The real heart of the problem is that I am not built to be away from home.

I love home; home is the best. I know where to find the scissors and where the best spot on the couch is. I can do laundry whenever I want. My cats are here, my kids are here, my husband is here.

Being not at home is terrible. There are people and they might look at me. They might greet me. A car might come down the street, or a plane might fly overhead. I might not be able to find the kind of bread my kids like at the store, and while I’m there I might have an awkward social interaction.

I suspect that this is what other people enjoy about going out and doing things: the excitement of the unanticipated.

Not me. I need to be able to anticipate everything. I frequently play out conversations in my head before I have them. I fret about the people around me and the emotions they might be having. I do not like surprises, even good ones.

All of these difficulties are, of course, magnified in a foreign country. I’ve practiced ordering coffee and ice cream, but I still can’t anticipate what it will be like to actually order food in a restaurant in Japan. I don’t know what the locals are going to be thinking about me and my family when we’re trying to navigate the Tokyo public transit system. And then there’s the issue of my limited language skills. Sumimasen! Wakarimasen!

All of this to say: can I blame my being a shitty traveler on undiagnosed neurodivergence? It seems like all of my peers are getting late-in-life neurodivergence diagnoses, and to be honest it makes me want to roll my eyes a little. If 50% of people in a generation have an ADHD diagnosis, then is it really a thing that needs to be diagnosed? On the other hand, I’ve long wondered about my own neurodivergence, and the longer I am alive the more I start to inspect the components of my personality and wonder if they are actually symptoms.

I have no intention of seeking out a diagnosis. I understand myself much better than any psychologist or autism influencer ever could and it’s waaaaaaaay too late for those early childhood interventions.

But it sure would be nice to be able to blame autism. It’s not that I am stubborn and scared and unwilling to adapt! It’s that I’m autistic! I’m not easily overwhelmed because I am weak–I’m easily overwhelmed because I’m easily overstimulated.

And I’m not a bad traveler, I’m just an autistic traveler. Right?

I went into work with off-the-charts anxiety the other day due to some medical issues and weird test results with one of my kids (since resolved). I’m a hypochondriac and struggle to tolerate medical complications and emergencies, and it’s about 1,000x worse when it has anything to do with a child.

I told my lead clerk about this. We sit about five feet apart in the office all day so it’s not like we can easily hide things from each other. She was extremely sympathetic, offered me some words of encouragement, and then we both had to turn back to our screens and get on with the barrage of morning tasks.

And then from the little computer speakers in her corner of the office I hear:

Sometimes, some crimes… go slipping through the cracks…

Without asking, she had put on the Rescue Rangers theme song to cheer me up because she remembered that I like it.

I was very touched.

This is the same coworker who earlier this week walked into the office at 6:55 AM and proudly announced that she had taken an amazing picture of her cat last night and would I like to see it?

Um, yes, of course. And you know what? It really was an amazing picture of her cat.

Having coworkers is just the best. Even when they do annoying things like accidentally walk off with my scissors or stop by to chat about their upcoming camping trip when I’m in the middle of six time-sensitive tasks. I got renewed for next year and am already excited to see everyone again in August even though it’s only May and we’re all still seeing each other at work every day.

I’m having one of those weeks where I have no motivation.

I’m not really sure what happened. I spent Saturday morning chopping up a big tree limb at the cabin with my little chainsaw. The kids hauled branches away. I showered and we packed up the cabin and started driving home and somewhere along I-35 my motivation and energy left my body and so far neither have returned.

Did I still make seven layer salad for Easter celebrations on Sunday? Yes. Did I still do laundry on Monday and meal planning and grocery shopping on Tuesday? Yes. There are some basic needs in this house that can’t go unfulfilled.

But the usual daily tidying that I do? Not happening. The kids’ Easter candy is still on the dining room table–we eat dinner amid the pastel chocolate chaos. I haven’t done a single thing this week to move forward with our upcoming house purchase or upcoming house sale or upcoming trip to Japan.

You know what I’ve been doing instead of cleaning or organizing or returning clothes that need to be returned?

Three words: mindless media consumption.

Maybe I should be embarrassed to admit it, but one of my favorite genres of videos on YouTube are the drain unclogging videos, and nobody does it better than post 10.

Here’s a great example of post 10’s content to get you started. He has much more polished videos with two camera views, but I’m a fan of his earlier, shakier work. I am certain that he is autistic and really respect his dedication to water drainage.

Along the same lines, I love thep00lguy and have been watching him for years. Here’s a classic pool cleaning video from him. I find his accent and work ethic very soothing.

I’ve also been digging Logan’s Candies videos recently. I’ve watched enough of them to know by now that they all end the same way and yet each time I am surprised and delighted when the yellow blob is transformed into colorful candy.

I recommend that the next time you find yourself in a motivation rut you should just dig in. Load up Ye Olde YouTube. Maybe water drainage isn’t your thing, but power washing is. Find what you love, settle in, and enjoy the slow decay of your brain and body.

It is the Casey way!

Have we ever discussed astrology?

I want to believe in astrology. I find it fascinating, and have been known to say things like “But you don’t seem like a Leo to me!” even when I have no fucking clue what a Leo is supposed to be like.

I have never read a book about astrology or even done any decent amount of research into the characteristics of the various signs. But if I come across horoscopes in the newspaper I am absolutely going to read them all, and read them to you if you happen to be in the room with me.

A few weeks ago, one of my coworkers was complaining about something that happened at work, and she ended her story by stating “but that’s just how I am because I’m a Scorpio.”

Just today another coworker declared that his birthday was coming up and someone else shouted “Mine too! It’s Taurus season!”

I am obsessed.

I will happily tell you all the ways in which zodiac signs have influenced my life. I have a large number of friends who were born Pisces or Libra for some reason… is it possible that’s a coincidence? The coworker I work with most closely (and most happily) is a Virgo… just like my husband. I recently found out that an eccentric and entertaining acquaintance is a Cancer… just like my eccentric and entertaining sister…

I am a Sagittarius. This random astrology website tells me that I am “the ultimate free spirit: optimistic, open-minded, and ambitious.” It also tells me that I like “inspirational stories, international travel, dares, and flirting.” I do not enjoy “rules, routine” and can probably be found “organizing a talent show.”

See, I know it’s utter bullshit. I know it so much.

But also I identify deeply with my Sagittarius identity–so much so that I will not use my husband’s Virgo coffee mug in the morning, even if it’s the last one left because come on, a Virgo? Me?! YEAH RIGHT.

So I am here for the astrology-laden workplace chatter, and will bring my best Sagittarius self to this ongoing conversation. Ruling planet: Jupiter, bitches.

I feel very busy lately, even though I’m not. It just feels like I have a lot of major projects up in the air, and a lot of upcoming chaos.

There’s old house stuff: make handyman list, hire handyman, schedule floor refinishing, schedule carpet cleaning. I’ve been researching the history of this house for years, and the time has come to put it all together into a book that we can pass to the next owner. Finishing the research has taken a good amount of my time lately, as has writing the rough draft. I’ve also been purging like crazy, making a trip to Goodwill every other week it seems.

There’s new house stuff: figure out what sort of work we want done before we move in, interview contractors, hire contractors, hire movers, figure out new furniture purchases. New furniture! I am so excited to finally have a desk! My kids will also have desks! There’s been an ongoing flurry of small appointments and communications with the realtor and the sellers and the title company, even though we’re still multiple months out from closing.

There’s our Japan trip coming up. Did you know that the new Nintendo Museum in Kyoto is running ticket purchases on a lottery system, and that the lottery happens three months in advance of the dates you need? Yeah, I didn’t either. Oops. But the itinerary is pretty solid now, and I think I’ve even got a handle on how to use the shinkansen. I am studying Japanese on Duolingo. I booked a house sitter. Next up: packing lists, I guess?

Oh, and did you remember that we have a cabin? HAHAHAHAHAHA. Yeah, me either. Last fall, on the last day before the dock came out, we discussed our cabin plans for the next summer and agreed on just two small improvement tasks to complete this spring. Those are both in progress as of the end of March, so now we just have to deal with the usual summer opening tasks: cleaning up the last of the leaves, launching the jet ski, dragging all the kayaks and paddleboards out of the garage and back down to the shore, the endless de-mucking of our swimming area. Oh, and I guess we should find time to enjoy the cabin this summer too, somehow.

It’s going to be a crazy summer. We close on the new house in mid-June and leave for Japan just a few days after that. We get back right before the Fourth of July, turn around and my youngest has his first sleepaway camp. Somewhere near the end of July or early August we will move, and hopefully swiftly put our current house on the market after that. And somehow we have to remember to make it to the cabin at least a couple times in there and make that mortgage worth it?! Oh, and then I go back to work mid-August.

Anyway, I am truly not THAT busy. I only work half-time. Yardwork season hasn’t started yet. I am literally the only person in the house who cares if the house is clean so I have just stopped cleaning. And I am very excited about the Japan trip, the new house, and standing in the lake at the cabin with a beer in my hand at least once this summer. So it’s all good.

I just have to keep all these balls in the air for a while.

I drove us all back from the cabin this weekend, which means I got to work my way through the entire Kacey Musgraves Essentials playlist on Apple Music. And now you get this endlessly compelling blog post.

1. Dime Store Cowgirl
   This is–in my mind–absolute Peak Kacey. It’s got all the country music twang I could ever want, and is a perfect snapshot of an up-and-coming musician making her way around the country (and then the world!). Extra points for both the Willie Nelson and Gram Parsons references.
   Favorite lines: Slept in a room with the ghost of Gram Parsons; drank some wine I can’t afford.
2. Oh, What a World
   Did I drunk-cry when she performed this song at that one concert I went to? Yes, I did. However, I could do without the weird production on the recording, and am still waiting for the acoustic version release.
   Favorite lines: Did I know you once in another life? Are we here just once or a billion times?
3. The Architect
   The philosophical younger sister of the song above, I just love the idea of God being surprised and delighted (or possibly disappointed) by his creations.
   Favorite lines: There’s a canyon that cuts through the desert, did it get there because of a flood? Was it devised, or were you surprised when you saw how grand it was?
4. Rainbow
   Fun fact: I also play this one on piano.
   Favorite lines: If you could see what I see, you’d be blinded by the colors.
5. Pageant Material
   More great country twang here, along with the musings of someone who has taken a step back from their natal culture and can identify the ridiculous parts. All cultures have ridiculous parts, and being able to identify
   Favorite lines: I’m always higher than my hair, and it ain’t that I don’t care about world peace, but I don’t see how I can fix it in a swimsuit on a stage.
6. My House
   Can harmonica music be defined as adorable? Because the harmonica lines here are adorable. Extra points for the Washington State reference.
   Favorite lines: Any KOA is a-okay as long as I’m with you.
7. Biscuits
   Are we seeing a pattern in my appreciation of country twang? This song is ridiculous, but has a great message.
   Favorite lines: Pissin’ in my yard ain’t gonna make yours any greener.
8. Space Cowboy
   It is admittedly strange that this one makes my top ten list. I mean the title alone is delightfully weird so that helps. She just has so many great lines in this one and great visuals. I always picture her throwing open the back end of a horse trailer and letting a flannel-clad cowboy drive his Chevy Silverado back out into a dating pool of horses.
   Favorite lines: You can have your space, cowboy, I ain’t gonna fence you in.
9. simple times
   I know, this is the only one from her star-crossed album to make it onto my top ten list. I certainly can’t relate to all the bits about hanging out at the mall with her friends, but I can definitely relate to the desire to pause this video game called adulthood for half a day.
   Favorite line: Wish that I could put this game on pause, skip this round, take the headset off.
10. I Remember Everything (Zach Bryan feat. Kacey Musgraves)
    I can’t personally relate to this topic; however, this song is the closest I’ve gotten to understanding what it must be like to go through a breakup with your first love. They reference their former intimacy, the man’s ongoing drinking problem, the woman’s childhood trauma, and then end by saying they wish they didn’t remember everything but they do. Also there are violins in the background and nothing makes me love a song more than adding some damn strings.
    Favorite lines: Blame it on the beach, grown men don’t cry.

I would be very curious to know what everyone else’s favorite Kacey Musgraves songs are!